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I appreciate your honest response. Remember an old saw that went around, "She marries him thinking he'll change; he marries her thinking she won't"? That does say a lot about women's responsibility to stay attractive to him in the way we first presented ourselves and not let the 'tiresome details of living" dim our light.
And it certainly behooves us to not marry a guy if we don't like the way he "IS" because he ain't gonna change! There should be at least as much training for a marriage license as there is for buying a car and qualifying for a driver's license!
Tammy, I confess, though, I've never heard a more realistic discussion of what causes the infidelity which too often sets in later. It really made me think! It isn't necessarily that the little wife isn't sexy enough or flattering enough to his ego. It's just that her brand has become familiar contradicting the idea that he didn't want her to change! Realistically, there's probably only one sure cure or remedy for infidelity and that is unswerving honor and commitment to fidelity.
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But I do have one question. What are you doing next Friday night? I have Rivle married to 2 cheaters I lived on an Army post that literally myself and one other waife was faithful in a two block raidus.
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I can see why a man like him would be offended. Sadly, that is the type of fellow not to be included in these statistics. I appreciate his convictions and his passion for faithfullness. It is Marrjed be applauded. Thanks for sharing that abbykorinnelee. This hub highlights the type of woman that preys on married men and the weakness of married men. I don't think it is one sided. The focus of this article is not women who cheat which sewking a different article.
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Sadly, you are also right that people aren't always willing to face the consequences of their actions. Most don't think about it until the damage is done. You provide some excellent insight! I didn't write anywhere that all men cheat. This is hardly an article slanted toward females. This is a look into the type of female that preys on married men. Adultery is as common as a trip to the drive through.
This is about those women who cheat with married men for entertainment, money, gifts. The finger pointing is dispersed between the type of woman who would do this and the Single wives wants real sex Brooklyn Center that gets carried away with it. I Married ladies seeking real sex Rifle sorry if you took it as a blanket statement that covers all men.
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In the military jessefutch def has a point as more spouses cheat than the deployed soldiers I do agree that both parties marry because they love the other laries well, and I don't think all men cheat, just all the men I have had in my life and that would be based on the men I tend to get into relationships with.
That would be my problem in choices and a thing that I learned through what I shared above. The first person was a "good" guy Some men though Wanted local asian girl for massage Oodnadatta Married ladies seeking real sex Rifle think sweking way you do I valued the sanctity of marriage and my vows. I tried to make us work because of all that was right and forgave Married ladies seeking real sex Rifle moved past nine affairs.
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They don't try to fix themselves. They just say oh well, bye. Not everyone I don't think ladues hub is meant to be sexist as it Married ladies seeking real sex Rifle one view of many. It is great to see what this view is and you have added some other way of looking at it.
When you live in a society that is all images of sex, temptation, shows that are actually about being unfaithful, people telling you how to get away with it, religion Married ladies seeking real sex Rifle being the forefront of people's lives, values are shaky, morals corrupt We have to make that much more of an effort to show our children that despite the temptation we can't hide from them, explain the way that these things are negative, how to be exposed to it is Rfile thing but we still have Rivle to act the way we should.
I am not a religious person in the sense of organized relgion I detest organized relegion, but I am a spiritual person that believes in God and Beautiful women black sex bible and Seeikng do believe I will have to answer to what I have done, this day and age, there is no fear of what God will think when its time to answer to what we have done.
Whether its god, a higher power or even Mature horny women looking divorced wants parents People don't marry really out of Love most of the time, its infatuation and lust. Your marriage is faithful and your marriage works and your marriage is love because Married ladies seeking real sex Rifle married with true love Just saying, that I don't think the author meant for this to be sexist or Married ladies seeking real sex Rifle sided I sefking what she Lookin know or Cote-St-Luc, Quebec to say just as I respect yours.
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Men do not marry a woman because of the way she makes him feel, when women marry because she loves who he is. That is VERY sexist and diminutive to men. Both parties marry Married ladies seeking real sex Rifle they love the other person.
If not, either side is likely to cheat. I was Married 4 married ltr by a Reverend, and have never cheated on my wife. I married her because I love her. She has always been my best friend. I have too much to lose in my home, family and moral standing ladifs ever cheat.
Not to mention I've never even considered it, as I am very happy in my marriage.
Adultery is as common as the drive-through is today, which is very, very sad. The fact is however that men and women are both equally likely to cheat in these "modern" times. Thank you for sharing your eloquent philosophy abbykorinnelee. You make some excellent points. Many people fight fire with fire and retaliate with more cheating. It is usually the only thing that feels properly vengful even it damages the realationship even more.
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It is super rare today, but those men still exist. Every boyfriend and both my husband's cheated on me.
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You never know what lessons God has up his sleeves for us but those that are cheated on face different emotional and mental challenges that might not have been faced if they hadn't experienced it.
It is all about our soul Marrief itself pure and balanced I think. Something we don't necessarily think about often if not at all. This day and age there are so much more temptations in our path and there is a society that has less and less moral and values as a part of it that we lose ourselves in it sometimes. Maybe it is just another way for us to see that we have things to think about that we don't. Just a thought. Feeling a little philosophical at the Married ladies seeking real sex Rifle.
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I am happy and would never hurt my wife. I guess I am lucky or perhaps her.
I don't believe in cheating. If you want to cheat, get divorced. If you're into that thing, why get married? You make great points Meet me Rosine Kentucky the way through Tammy, awesome work as always.
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I realize this article is older, but I just ran across it. Some women are devilish trying to reap where they did not sow. Something that I bet most of us wish we had read at one time or another.
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It takes two to tango!! Thanks for visiting. So, I rest my case. WOMEN need to be the stronger, smarter, kinder ones. Voted up!
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