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Few liars have sufficient imagination to make up detailed descriptions of fictitious events. Plus, a deceptive person wants to minimize the risk that an investigator will discover evidence contradicting any aspect of his or her statement; the fewer facts that might be proved false, the better. Narrative balance A narrative consists of three parts: The prologue contains background information and describes events that took place before the critical event. The critical event is the most important occurrence in the narrative.

The aftermath describes what happened after the critical event. In a complete and truthful narrative, the balance will be approximately 20 percent to 25 percent prologue, 40 percent to 60 percent critical event and 25 percent to 35 percent aftermath. If one part of the narrative is significantly shorter than expected, important information may have been omitted. If one part of the narrative is significantly longer than expected, it may be padded with false information.

The following statement, filed with an insurance claim, is suspiciously out of balance: The traffic light at the intersection of Elm and Patterson was red, so I came to a complete stop. After the light turned green, I Salt n pepper big cocks 7th street slowly into the intersection. All of a sudden, a car ran into me.

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The MLU equals the total number of words in a statement divided by the number of sentences: When people feel anxious about an issue, they nefding to speak in sentences that are either significantly longer or significantly shorter than the norm.

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Wirh M. ClikemanPh. Antics with Semantics. It may happen that you inherit a case that someone else opened. Besides financial documents, all you have are the written statements from witnesses and suspects. Can you tell enough from words alone to detect evasion, lack of cooperation and the intent to deceive?

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They refer to past events as if they were occurring in the present. You should pay particular attention to those points in the narrative at which the speaker shifts to this inappropriate present tense usage, as in the following example. How many times in this written statement does this person switch to the present tense? What seems significant about ahd points at which the switch occurs? We used two cars because there was some bulky merchandise such as bicycles and a battery-operated car.

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We divorced after a year and a half and he went on to destroy many other women and eventually brought children into the mix. I met my husband of 34 years and he is the polar opposite of the thing I had wed when I was younger. This has been my mantra and I taught it to my daughter at a young age.

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Toxic people will make it seem as if you are the problem, not themselves. All of the manipulative people around me share that same characteristic!

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